Tuesdays TMI!

1. Have you ever felt guilty or ashamed after a sexual experience?
Yep and I am not going to
explain any further. Some things
just need to be left unsaid lol

2. Did you ever own a fake ID?
Never needed it lol
When I was younger, I looked over 21
so was never carded till the day
I turned 21 lol

3. How often do you tell white lies? Is it with or without thinking?
I despise liars. There is no reason at
all to tell a lie. None.

4. On a scale of 1-10, how well do you receive constructive criticism?
Truthfully..not very well. I always feel
like a failure when someone tries to
criticize me.

5. Have you ever shaved your pubic hair?
Of course lol

Bonus: What percentage of women do you think are capable of handling being in a "friends with benefits" relationship? How about men?
I think women can have that kind of relationship..but
men are able to have that kind of
relationship easier cause men have a
way about them that they can give them
the ability to block out guilt where as women
seem to feel it for the smallest things.

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Now playing: Stevie Wonder - For Once In My Life
via FoxyTunes

TMI Tuesday!

1. What do you feel is the difference between sexy and erotic?
The difference is, sexy is an attitude
a person has that is trying to get their
partner all revved up for sex,
erotic is slow, taking your time,
learning new things about your mate

2. Do you believe there is one right person (i.e. soul mate) for you out there in the world, or that there can be many different potential mates that you could live blissfully with?
My belief is this, there is one person
out there that is your true soul mate
(I found mine with the Commander)
But..there is a possibility to be
compatible with another and still be able to
live in harmony.

3. Do you need to hear "I love you" or similar words on a regular basis from your partner?
Being the Commander is not the
most affectionate, I have a need to hear it
on a regular basis

4. What feeling do you have the most difficulty expressing?
Frustration
I simply sit there and stew and simmer
till I either forget it or explode

5. What is worse - physical, mental or cyber cheating?
All of the above.
No explanation.
If any of these are done, it is betrayal
Plain and simple


Bonus (as in optional): The Kinsey scale attempts to describe a person's sexual history or episodes of their sexual activity at a given time. It uses a scale from 0, meaning exclusively heterosexual, to 6, meaning exclusively homosexual. Where are you - TODAY - on the scale?

Ok took this Kinsey test and it
said I am a 3.
.....


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Being Sappy To: Peter Cetera - Glory Of Love
via FoxyTunes

TMI Tuesday!

1. What is the strangest thing you have ever inserted
or seen inserted (in a sexual manner) in person?

Unfortunately, I am quite boring when
it comes to sex. But I did see a picture once
of a woman with a baseball bat
inserted into her rear.
Gave me nightmares.


2. Have you ever had sex anyone whose name started with a J?

I dated a couple of guys, but they never scored


3. Have you ever been outside completely naked?

Skinny dipping, hells yeah


4. Do you prefer music, tv, or other noise in the background when you have sex?
I like music, romantic and slow, but the Commander
is too OCD to just have it playing in the
background. Throws off his rhythm.



5. Have you ever used ice for sexual purposes?

Oh yeah baby.


Bonus: Have you ever been propositioned for group sex?

Once. And I am not going to
go into further detail here.
Basically just know I refused the offer
even though it was tempting


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Listening To: Journey - Any Way You Want It
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Tuesday TMI!

1. What lines have you used to let someone down gently.
*It is not you, It's me...*

2. If I gave you $10K to waste, what would you buy.
Clothes, a laptop, dishwasher,jewelry... lol the usual.

3. If I gave you $10K, but you had to spend it all on someone else, what would you buy.
I would get my hubby some new clothes and
probably a guitar he had mentioned wanting.
Perhaps get him a car...
Lotsa of electronic types of stuff lol

4. If your partner brought a double dildo to bed, you'd be ____________?
Shocked! lol

5. What sounds to you make during sex.
Moans, pants, mewls and all that female
whimpering type stuff lol


Bonus (as in optional): Tell your worst break up story.
A very very long story short...lol
I was with a guy we shall call *D* for a little over
7 years. I had finally had enough of him so told him
blatantly I was moving out. He did not believe me.
The day I was ready to go, he tried to stop me by
grabbing onto the car window. Freaked me out
something horrible. I mean this guy would show up
at my place all hours of the night, drunk. Screaming
and yelling. He would break into my apartment
to find out where I was. Harass my family and friends
to get some kind of information.
Needless to say..I am glad I never saw him again.

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Reminiscing To : Billy Joel - The Downeaster "Alexa"
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TMI Tuesday!

1. How many credit cards do you own? Are they paid off?
Currently, I own not one credit card.
In the past though I had about 2 or 3.
All of which I still owe lol.

2. Can you be in love with someone you don't trust?
Love and trust go hand in hand.
But yes, there can be love with some distrust.
The trust just has to be rewon.

3. Should prostitution be legal?
This is a hard question to answer.
As a woman, a married woman, part of
me says no. But then there is the practical
side of me that says yes. Then it can be monitored
so disease can not be spread. Women who are
left no other recourse can earn money and get off
welfare and perhaps taxes which would be applied aid
in lowering the prices on other things.

4. On a scale of 1-10, how good of a lover do you think you are? (1 is lowest, 10 is highest)
How can anyone really answer this about
themselves?
Personally, I think I am a dayum fine kisser and
am very in tune with what my lover needs or wants.
So...to be fair..I will say 7.

5. What are three mistakes someone could make on the first date with you that would automatically make you turn down a second date with them?
Talk about a former girlfriend
Try to get *lucky* within the first few hours
Be a total nitwit.


Bonus (as in optional): Tell us about your worst date ever.
The one time that comes to mind was this one date
I had with a guy that was a blind date.
Turned out the guy was a skin head, expected me
to pay not only for my own train fare(yeah he
did not have a car) but my own movie ticket as well!
Needless to say I never called him and avoided his
phone calls after that!


Killin Wil's Ears by Singing Along To: Carrie Underwood - Before He Cheats
via FoxyTunes

TMI Tuesday!!

1. Is there a TV show you HAVE to watch? If so, what is it?

On this one there are several HBO shows that I watch
or have watched religiously.
The first being The Sopranos.

The second being Rome.

Third is Big Love.


2. What is you favorite drink if you are going to drink more than one?
Everyday beverage is water. I drink
anywhere from 2 to 5 bottles a day.

When it comes to alcohol, it is Bud.


3. How long do you carry guilt around with you?
Depends on the infraction.
But truthfully, a long time before I
finally shrug it off and forget it.


4. Where is or would be your number one romantic get away spot?
Well...at this time my answer would
have to be, anywhere but home. Or some beach..no one around but me and the Commander...relaxing, and enjoying peace & quiet.


5. Have you ever seen a counselor?
Yes. As a young kid my mother and so called
step father had me see a therapist.
Needless to say..he stopped letting me go cause
he said I went there to color and have fun. When in
truth, he just did not want me to tell about
how he treated me.
Bonus (as in optional): Last summer the Archives of Sexual Behavior,
the 237 reasons people have sex and the
Top 50 Reasons Men and Women Have Sex.
What are your top 5 reasons?

4. I wanted to show my affection to the person
16. I wanted to feel connected to the person.
18. It was a romantic setting.
36. I wanted to communicate at a "deeper" level.
41. I wanted to keep my partner satisfied.



Those are 5 I chose from the list.

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Singing Along To: Eurythmics - Sweet Dreams Are Made Of This
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TMI Tuesday!

1. How many cell phones have you had? How long have
you had your current cell phone number?
I have had about 3 cell phones I think.
This latest one is a Razor which I can not
say I like too much. I've had the number
since Christmas.
2. Where was the last place you had sex?
In the bedroom with the Hubby.
3. On a scale of 1-10, how satisfied are you
with your love life?
(1 is lowest, 10 is highest)
Heh I am pleading the 5th on this one.
If I say a high number..all the women will
want my Commander..(they already do as it is lol)
and if I say low (which is soooo untrue) the
Commander will be teased..so...pleading
the fifth here peeps. LOL

4. Does Bliss sound like a fun game to you?
Have you ever played it?
Never heard of it. So nope.
5. Is there anything or anyone you would be
willing to die for?
Well the Hubby of course,
my children, family,
and a few select friends.
Bonus (as in optional): If you were (or had) a magic
genie and could only grant wishes for others
and you only had three left,
what would they be and
who would they be for?
Heh I would grant the hubby those
three wishes. I am guessing they would
be something along the lines of
financial security for the rest of our lives.
Good health, and great happiness.
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Singing Poorly To: Bryan Adams - (Everything I Do) I Do It for You
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TMI Tuesday

1. Stubble... good or bad? How often do you shave?
Stubble on a man can be erotic
but on a woman, heckks no
I shave legs and various spots often

2. If someone shoves you up against a wall while kissing you, your reaction is?
Well if it is ever done I will let you know...

3. Did you ever own a fake ID?
Never had to

4. Have you ever played a game which may require you or others to disrobe?
Yup

5. Have you ever had sex in the snow? Rain?
Yup, yup

Bonus (as in optional): Tell us about your last boyfriend/girlfriend?
He was an ass...short and simple

Tuesday TMI!

1. By what nickname(s) were you known as a child?
Reg, Reggie, G, Ginabelina

2. Do you have a favorite poem and, if so, what is it? Recite it (or a snippet) here, please.
Do you know the fidelity of loving in vain?
Do you know the heartache? The misery? The pain?
Do you know the emptiness of a long silent night?
When the one you love is so far from sight?

Who could've told you?
Who could've known?
That this is the price of loving alone?
For you are to me like a flame in the dark.
That not even time can put out the spark.

......

3. What is your greatest regret in life, something that you failed to do that you wish you did?
God, there are so many regrets I have. But the one
that sticks out for me, is allowing some people
the power to control my emotions. Telling me how I feel is wrong.
Telling me that I am a disappointment to them and
believing it.
May be a little general..but it is best for now...

4. You are tired and hungry, but it's too late to cook. If any snack food were available to you, what would you choose and why?
Peanut butter and jelly on toast.
Cause I love Peanut butter all melted heh.

5. What is the oldest item of clothing (not jewelry!) that you wear regularly and what do you love about it?
My bra lol. Don't love it..I have just been too lazy to buy new.


Bonus (as in optional):Name a movie or TV show that changed your thinking or behavior.
Umm...drawing a blank here..I do not put much stock in what
is on TV. 90% of it is hogwash anyway


Singing to: Ashlee Simpson - Pieces Of Me
via FoxyTunes

1. Would you stay in a relationship with an physically unfaithful partner?
Unfortunately, I have.

2. Would you stay in a relationship with an emotionally unfaithful partner?
Unfortunately again, I have.

3. On a scale of 1-10, how important is the recognition of birthdays to you (your's, a friend's, a partner's)?
Pretty important. So I will say a 10
I try to remember every
occassion and make them as special as I can,
So it hurts when my own birthdays and such
are not given the same attention.

4. When you have a "toe-curling" orgasm, do your does curl up, or down?
Down..hehehehe

5. Every one has a pet peeve, tell me one of yours.
Liars. Plain and simple.
Be honest with me always.


Bonus (as in optional):Name someone famous who you have no sexual interest in but would have sex with just to brag about it?
Umm...Will Farrel lol


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Singing Loudly To: Carrie Underwood - Before He Cheats
via FoxyTunes

1) Do you have/ever had any dating or sex superstitions? (Wear 'lucky jeans' on first date, always light a vanilla candle, etc.) If so, what are they?
Not exactly superstitions, but good luck articles.
Thinking stupidly if I wore a certain outfit
I would have a great time.

2) If you were stranded on the old deserted island, and a genie appeared who could only grant you one wish -- to bring one of the following people to join you, who would it be?

- your spouse/significant other
- an unrequited love or some person you've had a crush on
- an old/past love
- your best friend
I would have to say my spouse. He is my
best friend, my love and let's be honest,
if I had to be stuck on a deserted
island, I want someone around
that can make me laugh.

3) Tell us "weather or not" you're in the mood -- how does rain, snow, sleet, scorching heat, sweltering humidity etc. affect your libido.
Rain can be extremely romantic.

Snow to me is romantic as well. You know
the big fat flakes that makes everything
white and quiet.

Sleet is just nasty and makes me want
to hide and watch some DVDs.

Heat and Humidity makes me want to
sit in the refrigerator, forget touching
or being touched!

4) Are you a crying drunk, an angry drunk, a 'I'm drunk, let's screw' sort of a drinker? (And, if you do not drink -- which one of those things is the reason?)
I am a silly, let's have fun in the sack kind
of drunk. But I will admit
it has been a long time since I have
even gotten close to being tipsy lol
5) Who turns you on the most & why:

the activist
the author
the care-giver/healer (nurse, doctor, masseuse, herbalist, chiropractor etc.)
the comedian
the educator (professor, teacher, mentor etc.)
the model
the musician
the politician
the scientist
Well, I read this question and had
to think about it. It is not a person's
profession that turns me on. In
fact it does nothing to get the
juices flowing.
But I will
say this..I have dated 3 drummers
and married a guitar player..

So..I guess musician? lol

Bonus (as in optional): Looking back, what's the one thing you've done which was supposed to be erotic, but didn't quite work out?
Ok this is a little embarrassing...
I was dating this guy, David for
about 2 years and he wanted to
experiment with food. I was young and
though a little hesitant, agreed.
He got all kinds of things..
Whipped cream
Strawberries
chocolate syrup
Yeah he had a theme going lol
Well..long story short..
I broke out in hives from the
strawberries I am allergic to
and he got a stomach ache from
too much chocolate syrup lol

Reminiscing to: The Beatles - Strawberry Fields Forever
via FoxyTunes

Tuesday TMI!

1. Are you done with your shopping yet?
Nope. Have not even started yet. Hoping to at least get a
few things tomorrow.2. What is your favorite sexual position?
Missionary.

3. On a scale of 1-10, how open are you to trying new sexual things?
10, definitely 10
4. What present are you hoping to get this year?
Unrealistically...
a dishwasher,
some jewelry
my fav perfume



Realistically, will probably get a few little
trinkets

5. With your current partner (or your last partner) how often was the sex better than just good?
Oh man..to be honest or not...LOL
I will say quite a few times...
LOL Love you Commander!


Bonus (as in optional):Can a relationship that you are part of survive on sex alone? Could it survive a prolonged period of abstinence?
The relationship I am in probably could not
last on sex alone.
In fact...we have a more friendship based relationship
then a passionate one.


Humming to: Air Supply - Making Love Out Of Nothing At All
via FoxyTunes

Tuesday's TMI!

1. Are you and early shopper or a late shopper?

If anything, I am a late shopper.
2. What is your favorite cartoon (current or passed)?

Always has been Tom & Jerry


3. On a scale of 1-10, how competent are you on home repair projects?

I would say a 5


4. What is your favorite holiday tradition?

Christmas Dinner

5. Describe your favorite kiss? Do you give it or receive it?

My favorite kiss had to be one the Commander laid
on me when we first got together. I had
come out for a visit,and we were getting ready to
go somewhere, when he stopped short in front of me
and turned, grabbed me and bent me
back and laid a kiss on me that just curled my toes.


Bonus (as in optional):What is the best holiday gift you have ever gotten? Best you've given?

The best gift I had received...well I think it is
best I go with what I have given. The
Commander has been the recipient
of many cool gifts. From tools that
he had mentioned wanting
to the little things like on
Valentine's day all the goodies
I make and buy for him. Needless to say,
I have spoiled the Commander.

Singing along with: Bing Crosby - White Christmas
via FoxyTunes

Tuesday TMI & Birthday Update!

1. If your partner buys you a sexy little "something" is it a present for you or for your partner?

If the Commander bought anything sexy, I think I would immediately get suspicious. He is not the type to purchase something *sexy*. But to answer the question... I would think it would be for us both. Me to feel beautiful and him to get all hot and bothered. hehehe
2. What are 3 characteristics of "your type"?

1- He must be honest
2- He must be attentive
3- He must be open, communication wise
If you mean looks...

1- Taller then me
2- A larger guy always makes me quiver
3- Has to have good hygiene
3. On a scale of 1-10, how good a cook are you?

I am an awesome cook. But somethings do not come out right,
so I will have to be conservative.
I say a 9
4. Tattoos: Love them or hate them. On you? On a partner?

I have two. One on each shoulder and would love to get
a 3rd. The Commander has one also. So I guess
my answer for this is love em lol.Could not find a pic of 2nd tat


5. Stubble: Good or bad? How often do you shave?

On a man it can be good. Those scratches can be quite fun.
On me, I have to shave every couple days.
My legs people!!! lol
Bonus (as in optional):What are a few of your favorite things
(both sexual and non-sexual)?

Non-sexual

Cuddling
Talking for hours
Watching movies with the Commander
Sexual

Hehehe y'all are makin me blush
.. Alright.. A good kiss can always curl toes.
And that is as far as I am going lol


And on a Side Note:
Yesterday was my 37th Birthday.
Though things did not work out as the
Commander and I had planned,
it was still a good day.
We had gone out to eat early for breakfast and had
some really good food, but then again, how
bad can someone mess up eggs? LOL
We did some errands. And found an awesome
bakery in Blue Island. Then went home. The
Commander then took a nap while I watched
some TV and enjoyed the fact that I did not have to
answer that damn bell or phone.
Couple hours later, I woke the Commander up.
We..cuddled..yeah..that's it...
::blush::

Anyway..we both were getting hungry, so
decided to go out. There was no way I
was going to cook lol.
After some debate, we ended up in
a restaurant we had gone to once before.
Traversos.
It had changed some since we last
visited, but the food was great.
I had the Chicken Parm,
The Commander had the Spaghetti.
I could not finish mine so, had to have
it boxed.
~will be eating that for lunch~
Then we headed to my sister in law's home.
It was good to have family around on this day.
My own children are down south,
and the rest of my family..well
99% are estranged for various reasons I will
not get into here..at least not now.

The Commander knows how I love to have
family close by, so I got my wish.
Happy Birthday was sung to me. Something that
had not been done in a long time and I actually
blew out candles!
Yes I made a wish.
Not telling what it was! LOL

Then came home and relaxed before bed.

So..yesterday goes down as a good one.
Thanks to all that made it special!




Singing along with: Percy Sledge - When a Man Loves a Woman
via FoxyTunes