Happy Anniversary Babe!

Yes, it is that time of year again!

10 years ago, at 4:30 AM EST
October,23,1998
The man I had told my mother 2
weeks earlier that I would end up
marrying, was getting out of his truck
after a 14 hour drive from Illinois
to Waddington, NY.

All because there was something we had
liked about one another when we started talking
on the internet.
Pictures were sent back and forth,
he drove out to meet me and my kids.

The rest, as they say...
is history..

He walked to the door and I, trying to keep
quiet, cause the kids were sleeping, headed down
the stairs and waved him up. I was hit by cupid alright.
Even though I KNOW he was just as nervous as I was.

One year later..to the day..we spoke our vows.
He sounded like William Shatner

I swore I looked like a huge marshmallow lol

But, without a hitch.. we said *I do* with
many friends and family as witnesses
(so he can't back out ya know? lol)

awwww

Yumm! That cake was awesome!!

Yes, we have had more then our fair share
of bad luck and deep arse valleys. But, I am still here,
still in love with him.

10 years together
9 years married.

Happy Anniversary Baby
I love you just as much now as I did then


Listening to the song HE chose: George Strait - I Cross My Heart
via FoxyTunes

TMI Tuesday!!

1. Is there a TV show you HAVE to watch? If so, what is it?

On this one there are several HBO shows that I watch
or have watched religiously.
The first being The Sopranos.

The second being Rome.

Third is Big Love.


2. What is you favorite drink if you are going to drink more than one?
Everyday beverage is water. I drink
anywhere from 2 to 5 bottles a day.

When it comes to alcohol, it is Bud.


3. How long do you carry guilt around with you?
Depends on the infraction.
But truthfully, a long time before I
finally shrug it off and forget it.


4. Where is or would be your number one romantic get away spot?
Well...at this time my answer would
have to be, anywhere but home. Or some beach..no one around but me and the Commander...relaxing, and enjoying peace & quiet.


5. Have you ever seen a counselor?
Yes. As a young kid my mother and so called
step father had me see a therapist.
Needless to say..he stopped letting me go cause
he said I went there to color and have fun. When in
truth, he just did not want me to tell about
how he treated me.
Bonus (as in optional): Last summer the Archives of Sexual Behavior,
the 237 reasons people have sex and the
Top 50 Reasons Men and Women Have Sex.
What are your top 5 reasons?

4. I wanted to show my affection to the person
16. I wanted to feel connected to the person.
18. It was a romantic setting.
36. I wanted to communicate at a "deeper" level.
41. I wanted to keep my partner satisfied.



Those are 5 I chose from the list.

Want to join the fun? Clink here -->TMI!

Singing Along To: Eurythmics - Sweet Dreams Are Made Of This
via FoxyTunes

1. Would you stay in a relationship with an physically unfaithful partner?
Unfortunately, I have.

2. Would you stay in a relationship with an emotionally unfaithful partner?
Unfortunately again, I have.

3. On a scale of 1-10, how important is the recognition of birthdays to you (your's, a friend's, a partner's)?
Pretty important. So I will say a 10
I try to remember every
occassion and make them as special as I can,
So it hurts when my own birthdays and such
are not given the same attention.

4. When you have a "toe-curling" orgasm, do your does curl up, or down?
Down..hehehehe

5. Every one has a pet peeve, tell me one of yours.
Liars. Plain and simple.
Be honest with me always.


Bonus (as in optional):Name someone famous who you have no sexual interest in but would have sex with just to brag about it?
Umm...Will Farrel lol


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Singing Loudly To: Carrie Underwood - Before He Cheats
via FoxyTunes

Mute Mondays!

Enjoying: John Michael Montgomery - I Can Love You Like That
via FoxyTunes

Tuesday TMI & Birthday Update!

1. If your partner buys you a sexy little "something" is it a present for you or for your partner?

If the Commander bought anything sexy, I think I would immediately get suspicious. He is not the type to purchase something *sexy*. But to answer the question... I would think it would be for us both. Me to feel beautiful and him to get all hot and bothered. hehehe
2. What are 3 characteristics of "your type"?

1- He must be honest
2- He must be attentive
3- He must be open, communication wise
If you mean looks...

1- Taller then me
2- A larger guy always makes me quiver
3- Has to have good hygiene
3. On a scale of 1-10, how good a cook are you?

I am an awesome cook. But somethings do not come out right,
so I will have to be conservative.
I say a 9
4. Tattoos: Love them or hate them. On you? On a partner?

I have two. One on each shoulder and would love to get
a 3rd. The Commander has one also. So I guess
my answer for this is love em lol.Could not find a pic of 2nd tat


5. Stubble: Good or bad? How often do you shave?

On a man it can be good. Those scratches can be quite fun.
On me, I have to shave every couple days.
My legs people!!! lol
Bonus (as in optional):What are a few of your favorite things
(both sexual and non-sexual)?

Non-sexual

Cuddling
Talking for hours
Watching movies with the Commander
Sexual

Hehehe y'all are makin me blush
.. Alright.. A good kiss can always curl toes.
And that is as far as I am going lol


And on a Side Note:
Yesterday was my 37th Birthday.
Though things did not work out as the
Commander and I had planned,
it was still a good day.
We had gone out to eat early for breakfast and had
some really good food, but then again, how
bad can someone mess up eggs? LOL
We did some errands. And found an awesome
bakery in Blue Island. Then went home. The
Commander then took a nap while I watched
some TV and enjoyed the fact that I did not have to
answer that damn bell or phone.
Couple hours later, I woke the Commander up.
We..cuddled..yeah..that's it...
::blush::

Anyway..we both were getting hungry, so
decided to go out. There was no way I
was going to cook lol.
After some debate, we ended up in
a restaurant we had gone to once before.
Traversos.
It had changed some since we last
visited, but the food was great.
I had the Chicken Parm,
The Commander had the Spaghetti.
I could not finish mine so, had to have
it boxed.
~will be eating that for lunch~
Then we headed to my sister in law's home.
It was good to have family around on this day.
My own children are down south,
and the rest of my family..well
99% are estranged for various reasons I will
not get into here..at least not now.

The Commander knows how I love to have
family close by, so I got my wish.
Happy Birthday was sung to me. Something that
had not been done in a long time and I actually
blew out candles!
Yes I made a wish.
Not telling what it was! LOL

Then came home and relaxed before bed.

So..yesterday goes down as a good one.
Thanks to all that made it special!




Singing along with: Percy Sledge - When a Man Loves a Woman
via FoxyTunes

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